It’s called continuous partial attention…

GettyImages 638529088 It's called continuous partial attention...

I read this Atlantic article about the dangers of screen time on kids. Yeah, blah, blah. But, no! This article turns things around. The bigger, broader, scarier issue (bigger than the direct effects of kids’ screen addictions) is the impact of parents’ screen addictions. Yeah, we’ve all been projecting. We always do when we experience shame, which reminds me … Read more

Today IQuitSugar.com closes. Here’s what’s next.

Dearest Everyone,   Today I close the business I built over many years, mostly in cahoots with you and the community. So I need to say a final thank you and share The Things You Need To Know.   I can’t pretend the success of IQuitSugar.com was all mine. I say this always – the prosperity … Read more

It’s hard for me to love a weak character

Screen Shot 2017 04 10 at 3.21.28 PM It's hard for me to love a weak character

Existentialist Hannah Arendt famously coined the phrase “the banality of evil”. She used it to describe what she felt was the most extreme failures of personal moral awareness –  not thinking and not responding adequestly when the times demand it. You know, sitting back and doing nothing even though the world is falling apart. And … Read more

A long letter about my business

Dearest Community of Supporters Over the Past 7 Years, I have some big news and it’s important to me that I share it with you first. After a lot of careful thought and much heartache, I’ve decided to close IQuitSugar.com. As many of you know, the IQS journey started at a time in my life … Read more

I’m doing “cool loneliness”

Screen Shot 2017 12 30 at 4.44.41 PM I’m doing “cool loneliness"

I’ve had cause to think about loneliness again lately. A journalist acquaintance brought it up over breakfast – she was surprised to read in first, we make the beast beautiful that loneliness is such a theme in my life. “But you come across as someone who doesn’t need other people.” Which is a lonely person’s … Read more